You may find the article on the Prostitute Archetype a valuable article to read if you think that at times your self-worth has caused you to behave in ways that may not be to your best benefit. 5. High Performance Leaders Are Excited By Life If you aren't excited about the journey ahead, how on earth will you excite those around you? Now this doesn't mean you need to go all cheerleader . But it does mean that you get out there with a spring in your step, and a vibe of passion, urgency, desire, energy and animation that others just can't help but be compelled by.
I definitely understand where you’re. I’m a black male & recently got out of a relationship.
The feminine movement has convinced us men to try and change our nature & somewhat relinquish leadership in marriages/courtship with a woman and let her lead, so most decent men try to, hence becoming too passive and away from the manly roles we where created naturally for and when this begins to frustrate us, we check out emotionally from the relationship, hence the momentum.
Btw..keep doing the right things and the right guy will come along.
Married couples need to practice this, too. Many couples tend to get focused on (and frustrated with) their differences while overlooking the common interests that brought them together in the first place. When that happens they need to go back to basics and begin to build again on their common interests, overlooking each other’s faults and appreciating the different qualities they bring into the marriage. Marriages seem to be made in heaven when they start, but they most assuredly need to be maintained and continually tended here on earth. Mignon McLaughlin puts it this way, “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”